I’ve been writing heck lot articles on love and emotion never thought of one question which dropped in my inbox this morning by a definition lover…

Define Love…

Seems difficult?? For me too… but still will LOVE to give it a shot…
I’ve been in love lately, since past 3 years. Lovely feeling till it’s all alive. Knowingly I’ve never tried but unknowingly might have defined love in various ways…
Starting with dictionary, ‘an intense feeling of deep affection’
And when It’ll come to my dictionary I’ll keep it this way ‘UNKNOWN DEDICATED FOCUS WITH NO DEMAND’
Now let me explain you these six words. Six words together for sure make some sense but doesn’t define my feeling completely rather they help me define my love individually…

UNKNOWN:  Have you ever wondered on poems and love article writing styles since human history?? Since language was evolved??? Love is often acquainted with endless limits of stars, deepness of ocean and beauty of horizon. All unknown limits for human… same feeling evolve in me when I hear this word love. Feeling of being UNKNOWN to limits power deepness and beauty of this word LOVE.

DEDICATED: obviously talking about real romantic love when I get so deeply dedicated to another being that I hold him before me in every walk of life no matter what! My passion of being there always for him. Not only making him feel but realize, I AM ONLY YOURS…

FOCUS: most interesting word for this definition. Associated with wanting, motivation and craving. Obviously obsession become worse when we are rejected. But Will love to start with a beautiful touching line I read somewhere but its marked so deeply in my jelly nerve combination..

I could not roll and keep the mattress in my house away since last night I watched you unrolling it


If that made your heart thump you bet me you are into this! This is what my romantic love is. Unbeatable focus on a single person. Focus that you can recognize his stuffs in millions. His bike in parking, his bag in library, his voice in party, sometimes if you are as crazy as I am then his footsteps too! Don’t know from where and how does brain gathers these ability but they certainly make us feel heavenly…

And last but certainly not the least,

WITH NO DEMAND: the reason for your love to last and end. Unfortunately I was on the end side, but now that I have understood its meaning it makes me feel complete. I love him with no real demands of him loving me back. With no real demands of him talking to me at least once. For sure complains are there to screw things and nobility of love up but that is what make us human. And coming over all complains and loving make us LOVERS…
For sure above is not the definition but the complete chapter as a whole but never mind, I at least tried to summaries up the word LOVE on which there are millions and trillions of literatures written and are still being written all over the world…

Monica Patel
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Vishwakarma Institute of Technology